Over the years, I have observed a common trend with women, not all women but a sizeable portion of the female population, they seem to be very insecure physically and sexually. In my opinion, these insecurities lead women to do some detrimental things in and to their relationships. Women, you need to empower yourselves. Embrace your body (it is the only one you own), get informed about what you like and don’t like sexually and learn that sex is meant to be enjoyed. It is very important to remember that communication is the key to any great relationship and a sexual relationship is no different. Everyone has insecurities but they do not have to interfere in a healthy relationship. Talk to your partner about the insecurities you have, work on them and get ride of them, or at least get them at a manageable level.
There is an old Chinese saying: “Man is fire, woman is water. The man fire brings the woman water to boiling.” These days most women want orgasms. That wasn’t always the case. Not much more than a generation ago, many adult females simply did not have climaxes – and a lot of them were not bothered about it. The big difference between male and female orgasm is that after the first climax, many women can “come” again, often within a minute or two. As always, the most important key to creating a better sex life is honest communication between you and your lover. After that you have got to realize that it is not a mechanical thing (unlike in men).
The four letter word is the most widely used and I might also say abused in the world today. It flows so effortlessly through the lips of men and women. It is thrown so carelessly even where it is not necessary. Sometimes it makes me think there is no definite definition of this word. It depends on the context in which the word has been used. The definition of love is at a persons discretion. But what is love? It is subject to debate because there are many types of love. It depends with the perspective from which you are looking at it. I hope you are also not forgetting the so called love that is said to bring a man and a woman together.
Spending time away from a loved one can be stressful and difficult for the entire family, but many jobs require travel and that means each person will have to adapt to the demands of his new position. You will be a critical success factor in this transition and your attitude and actions can easily make or break this opportunity for your family. Separation can make the heart grow fonder and make you both better appreciate the time you do spend together. Sometimes quality is the only alternative to quantity.